Dear Monogamous Couples …
★ Still love your partner, but finding sex pretty meh?
★ Middle-aged and rediscovering each other?
★ Struggling with exhaustion, stress or physical changes?
★ Want to work on your relationship, but not sure how to bring it up?
desire is inNate
The skills around it are not.
Nobody teaches us this. We get one shaky sex-ed class, a wedding, and the unspoken instruction to figure it out. Then we wonder why — 20 years in — the body forgot how to make it happen.
🔥 Pleasure is a skill set.
😮 Asking for what you want is a skill set.
🛀🏼 Receiving without flinching is a skill set.
All of them can be learned — together.
What if you could:
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Experience deeper connection and sexual satisfaction
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Understand your own sexual preferences, kinks, desires and boundaries
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Know exactly what you want and how to ask for it
Hi, I'm Janelle.
A Catholic-born and Ivy League-educated personal growth junkie, entrepreneur, podcaster and an erotic wellness practitioner. I’ve been through menopause. I’ve been married and divorced in love. I’m trained as a pro-domme, tantric guide and educational porn star. And I’m passionate about helping monogamous couples feel more wildly alive.
"Janelle, your radiance, intellect, spirit, and laughter is truly exceptional. But the best is the connection we discovered again with each other."
M.R., 61
"Janelle, you helped me realize that I wasn’t broken, that I actually DO have a G-spot! With your help, I now understand my pleasure in a whole new way.”
E.M., 52
erotic wellness?
What is
Erotic wellness incorporates the mental, emotional and spiritual aspects of sexuality — focusing on personal empowerment, pleasure, connection and intimacy, as well as healing from trauma and emotional wounds.
But erotic wellness has largely been overlooked. The $1.8 trillion-dollar wellness industry focuses on physical and mental health, while sexual health is often reduced to STI prevention and reproduction.
MY ADVOCACY
I'm an advocate for normalizing the need for education and skills around pleasure and intimacy, so we can have more fulfilling relationships.
MY VISION
A world where erotic wellness is celebrated as vital to holistic health, empowering people to reclaim their erotic energy as a source of healing, vitality and creativity.
“Janelle, your intent is pure, your heart is pure and your powers are considerable. You’re an empath and your work in this field is improving humanity one person at a time.”
John, 57
“My partner and I wanted to repair and refresh our sex life. But we were feeling bitter, resentful and disempowered. Our investment in Janelle is what made it happen. She is compassionate, informative and fun. We always felt safe, empowered and informed.”
Katherine, 29
workshops
Erotic Wellness
I live in The Goddess Temple, a space of sacred belonging dedicated to gathering, education and ritual. We host introductory workshops on sexuality, erotic wellness and pleasure.
“Our sex life wasn’t where I wanted it to be. It lacked the passion and communication it needed to thrive. Janelle was exactly what we needed. Three sessions later, I feel confident to express my desires, completely seen and held by my partner, and my newfound skills and tools are powerful and supportive.”
ERIC, 35
PoRN
Educational
In the spirit of sacred pleasure and normalizing skills and education about sex and intimacy ...
I’ve started an OnlyFans channel. (I did not see that coming!) And I’m producing it with my 83-year-old friend who inspired the idea.
Porn is not sex education. Yet for many people, it is their primary source of information about sex.
So I’m subverting this industry from the inside out ... by showcasing real lovemaking, authentic communication and genuine pleasure.
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With real bodies, real intimacy, real conversations and real laughter
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With educational, embodied, slow and sometimes awkward moments
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With lessons about how to ask, how to receive, how to be, in bed, with another human
OnlyFans not your thing? Videos available here.
“Janelle transformed our boring 20+ year sex life by helping me release shame around my desires and creating a judgment-free space where taboo topics feel like normal conversation. Her knowledgeable, compassionate guidance improved both our intimacy and communication with just a few minor tweaks."
K.J., 44
"Find the money and work with Janelle. Sex is way too important in our lives
to just keep winging it."
SETH, 46
podcast
Listen to my podcast, “Permission to be Human: How to Be Brave in Relationships”, where I chronicled my three-year journey with marriage, divorce, love, spirituality and pleasure, learned to look inward, love myself and ask for what I want.
Season 1: How To Question Everything (Ep. 1–49)
Season 2: How To Give Yourself Permission (Ep. 50–72)
Season 3: How To Talk To Your Partner About Sex and Intimacy (Ep. 74–84)
Season 4: How To Build A Relationship with Yourself (Ep. 88–99)
Season 5: How To Build A Relationship with God (Ep. 102–113)
Season 6: How To Design A Relationship That Works (Ep. 117–124)
Janelle’s process was easy, natural, and safe; I felt guided every step of the way. She not only deepened my connection with my partner, but also the connection with myself. Thank you, for holding us as we are, and encouraging a deep exploration of pleasure and intimacy.”
ADAM, 65
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