Erotic wellness
for Monogamous Couples
★ Still love your partner, but finding sex pretty meh?
★ Middle-aged and rediscovering each other?
★ Struggling with exhaustion, stress or physical changes?
★ Want to work on your relationship, but not sure how to bring it up?
SHE READS THIS
Sister! If you’re feeling nervous, I understand. But I’ve been through the menopause roller coaster —dryness, frustration and disconnection — and found my aliveness through pleasure and intimacy. I want that for you, too.
Still unsure? Start with a Goddess Activation Session.
"Thank you for showing him how to listen to my pleasure. It feels so good!"
Eloise, 52
HE READS THIS
Have you spent years providing for others and putting everyone else's needs first? Are you struggling to ask for what you truly want?
What if you felt deeply seen, understood and supported?
I honor and respect men and support their fulfillment, intimacy and relationships.
"Wow. I had no idea that all I have to do is move at the pace her body is moving!"
MARTIN, 61
YOU BOTH
READ THIS
With conscious touch, respect for your relationship, laughter, play and radical acceptance, I teach intimacy skills that can help you:
★ Prioritize your pleasure
★ Reignite your sexual desire
★ Repair communication breakdowns
★ Explore desires and boundaries together
★ Build a more fulfilling relationship
Erotic Wellness Immersion
Learn the skills and gain the education around pleasure and intimacy that you were never taught. Discover how to be a better lover to yourself, and each other. Have fun exploring your desires and fantasies.
INCLUDES: four online coaching calls, three in-person, three-hour sessions
First session focuses on her
Second session focuses on him
Third session focuses on the co-creation of desires
three MONTHs
$15,000
“We were feeling bitter, resentful and disempowered in the bedroom and wanted to repair and refresh our sex life. Our investment in Janelle made it happen. I would recommend her in a heartbeat. She is compassionate, informative and fun. We always felt safe, empowered and informed.”
Katherine, 29
MY STORY
I’ve Been There
I'm the daughter of a former Catholic nun and priest ... who outgrew oppressive societal norms around pleasure and intimacy. When my husband stopped desiring sex just months after our first marriage at 45, talk therapy didn't help — so I got the courage to seek education at Tantra retreats.
I discovered I was holding shame around feeling good and had spent my entire life prioritizing someone else's pleasure over my own.
The painful journey of learning healthy communication, honoring my boundaries, and listening to my body taught me that pleasure is sacred.
Now I have greater self-trust, safety in my body, and feel more wildly alive.
How I Work
The Difference Between Me & a Sex Therapist
Sex therapists traditionally focus on talk therapy. Due to licensure limitations, they cannot engage in physical touch. I deeply respect the work of sex therapists and my services often complement their care!
If you’re ready to move beyond talking things through, I offer a spiritual, touch-based experience focused on your erotic life force, embodiment and authentic communication.
My role is to:
★ Offer trust and a safe, supportive container.
★ Share tools, skills and resources.
★ Encourage laughter, play and sensual exploration.
What if you could feel:
🥳 Excited to go to bed at night
📿 Confident talking about your desires
💋 Desired by your partner
👀 Seen and understood
🤦🏽♀️ Less awkward
😻 Sex is playful, sexy and free
"During the session, I really felt your presence as a sister, breathing in sync with me, with my pleasure as your goal too."
ANDREA, 51
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Are in a loving, long-term partnership whose sex life feels unfulfilling or nonexistent
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Connect well in other areas of life but rate intimacy as a five or lower on a scale of 10
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Are unsure of what they want and how to ask for it
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Want to build new intimacy skills while exploring desires, boundaries and experiences together
Due to the deeply personal and intimate nature of this work — and the bravery and vulnerability it requires — I work only with couples who are already on a spiritual path and have a strong connection to their intuition.
I welcome clients of all genders, races and sexual orientations.
I Work With Couples Who:
What It's Not
❌ It’s not therapy.
❌ It’s not swinging.
❌ It’s not opening your relationship.
❌ It's not becoming polyamorous.
✅ This is private, structured, embodied work for two people who already chose each other — and want to choose each other better.
You're not alone
🍆 15-20% of marriages are sexless (fewer than 10 times per year).
❤️🩹 42% of women and 54% of men in long-term relationships are not satisfied with their sex lives
🫤 People who have sex less than once a week are less happy than people who have it more frequently
😟 30% of adults experience loneliness at least once a week
💔 Loneliness increases risk of heart disease by 29% and stroke by 32%
We are in a loneliness epidemic and people are craving more intimacy, touch and connection
TRUTH:
Pleasure and intimacy are good for your health
"Many couples find discussing sex to be one of the least discussed and most difficult topics in relationships."
According to a 2011 study in The JOurnal Of Sexual Medicine
"My intro to sex as a teenager was through porn and that set the stage of what sex should be. By working with Janelle I realized how little I knew about my desires, and how to ask for them."
seth, 48
